Calm is a process

How we plan

The method

  1. 1

    The budget architecture

    Before Pinterest, the maths: what matters most gets funded first, and the total is a wall, not a suggestion.

  2. 2

    The supplier shortlists

    Three vetted options per category — people we've watched work under pressure, not just photograph well.

  3. 3

    The master timeline

    Every vendor, every arrival, every 'who moves the chairs' answered in writing weeks before anyone asks.

A wedding is a small festival where the headliners are also the organisers. Unless you hire us — then it's just a festival.

Iris, founder